All posts tagged "conflict"
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Michael Schreiner | February 3, 2017
Thirsty For Conflict
Some people move almost seamlessly from one hostile conflict situation to the next. Any seeming periods of calm...
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Michael Schreiner | December 7, 2016
Conflict And Asking People Why They Did Something
In conflict situations we often feel compelled to ask our interlocutors why they think, feel, or act in...
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Michael Schreiner | September 19, 2016
Approaching Relationship Conflict In A Healthier Way
In any intimate long-term relationship conflict is unavoidable. We’ve written this before but it’s fundamentally important to understand...
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Michael Schreiner | May 24, 2016
Stonewalling
Stonewalling is one of the four patterns of behavior in conflict situations that John Gottman isolated as most...
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Michael Schreiner | June 9, 2015
Detached Personality And Interpersonal Conflict
If you’ve read our other articles on emotional detachment it probably won’t surprise you to hear that people...
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Michael Schreiner | January 30, 2014
Couples Teaming Up Against Conflict
Probably the most useful concept from narrative therapy is the idea of separating the problem from the person,...
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Michael Schreiner | November 12, 2013
Hero Worship
Some feel the relentless drive to elevate a person to godlike status. They search and search until finding...
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Michael Schreiner | November 4, 2013
Conflict Is Okay
Most of us have an ambivalent attitude towards conflict in our romantic relationships. Some of us try to...
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Michael Schreiner | July 3, 2013
American Neurosis
If you gain weight you’re fat and if you lose weight you’re anorexic. If you workout you’re a...
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Michael Schreiner | June 10, 2013
Conflict
There is a stage in the development of groups commonly called ‘storming’ where the veneer of friendliness and...